It takes a lot to be a sugar baby. Find out 5 things I think it takes to be a sugar baby.
1.) Knowledge. I’m not saying you need to being the smartest girl in the world. The knowledge you need is obvious, but not all babes are smart about these things. You need to research this lifestyle. Don’t watch one video, or read one blog post and think you know what you’re doing. You need to research night after night. And when you think you finally get it, research some more. Know the dangers. Know what kind of emotional impact this can put on you. Be prepared.
2.) Knowing your worth. I don’t just mean money. I mean time as well. You are a beautiful young woman, and people would kill just to look at you. Take advantage of it.
3.) NEVER settle. If a POT says he makes 3M a year, don’t settle for a 2k allowance! I personally never settle for anything less than 4k. When it comes time to talk allowance, try to let him make the first offer unless he’s taking too long to cut to the chase. When he makes an offer, double it. He’s going to offer the lowest amount first. Just like you are going to want to squeeze the most you can out of him, he’s going to try to save the most money for himself or any other potential babe.
4.) Know your goals, and don’t forget them. Remember that money is the motive. Don’t forget that everything you do comes at a cost for your SD. Never let him try to convince you to ‘give him some slack’ on the $$$.
5.) Respect your SD. I know that we mostly just think of our SD as a walking ATM, but remember that he is giving you what you want. He’s paying for your schooling, bills, and your christian louboutins. Do not steal from your SD, and don’t lie to him. There are certain things you can lie about though, such as things that will keep you safe such as your address, real name, ect. If he’s married, respect his privacy. SB/SD relationships don’t always look that great at jobs or to the people in our personal lives.
~Bonus~ Remember that your emotional state, and safety are more important than any amount of $$$. It can be really dangerous in this lifestyle. Remember that nothing is worth the risk of your life. Please read up on some of my safety tips here. You emotional state is very important as well. It’s hard to balance everything out in the sugar world. Be very careful if you have a real boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s not easy for someone out of the lifestyle to understand, and it can cause some serious stress on the relationship.
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